My wife is significantly affected by SLE Lupus, and while I am out of the loop now in terms of being able to discuss her condition with her doctors, I have to believe that her symptoms and behaviors are completely consistent with NPSLE Lupus, and include paranoia of me, psychosis, and reduced cognitive function. We are divorcing and in a custody fight because I feel that my children are no longer safe in her custody - she was going to leave them in the car for a couple of hours in the middle of the day in July while she went to a business meeting for a couple of hours without even asking me if I could help her.
The Judge said to my attorney "What is this Lupus stuff?", and his answer was weak. I would appreciate it if I could get an answer from those affected similarly as to how NPSLE or CNS Lupus would affect the ability of a single mother to safely care for her children?
I wish that I could help her, but I can't, and I feel that I have to do everything possible to help my kids. Please help me to do this. Thank you.