I think one the best things you can do is make it very clear with people referring you or whom you are asking about new doctors what exactly you expect in a doctor. Some people like doctors who tell them what to do, others like to be friendly, some want doctors that will listen to all their problems. Just we expect different things.
You might try and speak open and honestly to this doctor about your misgivings and it is possible that they will adjust to help you feel more heard. If they do not, you know their style...often too you might find a doctor with a style you do not normally like but once honest, you realize how honest they truly are so there is potential. Also do not get caught up in names, where they practice etc...many excellent doctors who choose to not practice in brand name places.
You might think about what it is you really want, like i prefer doctors who spend enough time ..schedule at least 15 minutes per patient....most offices will tell you opening about how long the allow. I also like honest, open and mutual respect.
You might also post on the Doctors group ....people post excellent ones as well as look for others.
But you might consider giving them a chance to meet your standards or expectations once you explain them. Good luck, today visiting a very excellent Vet who is willing to go all out to help my two dogs, i realize, that is what i like the most, knowing my doctors will do that for me when i am sick. GOOD luck, good doctors are out there...takes finding one and from that one they usually recommend you to like doctors..