New to site and first post so hopefully this is the right place.
I know lupus is hard, but try not to build up hate towards others that don’t understand. Hopefully I don’t sound insensitive, but whenever my father barely believed me, I always ended up holding a grudge and cursing him. Now I just tell myself, it’s not his fault, I started imagining what if I never had lupus but instead had to live or see someone else with lupus, would I have understood him/her just like I expected out of my father. Then I end up with the conclusion he doesn’t understand because he can’t understand. Not saying give up on explaining but try to hate people less, and always try your hardest.