Hello there! My name is Christie, and I am an intern here at Living with Ben’s Friends. Welcome to Living with Lupus, I’m so glad you found us. I’m sorry to hear about your loss, and I hope this new family that you found - Ben’s Friends - can provide the kind of information and support you are looking for, and help you through this tough time. You can always start by scrolling through some posts, or even start your own thread. I found the “Guide” on your top right corner very helpful for navigation!