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What is Lupus?

Lupus is a chronic inflammatory disease that occurs when your body's immune system attacks your own tissues and organs. Inflammation caused by lupus can affect many different body systems — including your joints, skin, kidneys, blood cells, brain, heart and lungs.

Lupus can be difficult to diagnose because its signs and symptoms often mimic those of other ailments. The most distinctive sign of lupus — a facial rash that resembles the wings of a butterfly unfolding across both cheeks — occurs in many but not all cases of lupus.

Some people are born with a tendency toward developing lupus, which may be triggered by infections, certain drugs or even sunlight. While there's no cure for lupus, treatments can help control symptoms.



Started by Vegas Girl in General 18 hours ago. 0 Replies

Hello fellow lupies been awhile since the site changed formats I havnt posted. So been in hospital twice since last year for breathing issues oxygen and iv stuff and week later I was home ok today I wanna ask if anyones using fairly new drug called…Continue

I am back because something more than fibro seems to be happening

Started by Petunia in General. Last reply by J 9 hours ago. 8 Replies

Getting and managing fibro has been hard enough, as so many of you know. But this past summer has been pretty awful.  I am now suffering from severe knee pain plus I am having a harder time catching and keeping my breath.  I just feel utterly…Continue


Started by Doggie in General. Last reply by Kenbow 10 hours ago. 7 Replies

I know it doesn't sound like much but I am now allows to walk from my dining room table to my desk and back twice a day. That is about 10 feet both ways.  I have to admit it wears me out but at least I get to walk.Continue

Work, Bills, Life

Started by Doolittle in Emotional Support. Last reply by Doggie on Saturday. 4 Replies

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Started by Nikki major in General. Last reply by dawncelest yesterday. 2 Replies

I've recently had to stop working due to complications. Our savings have taken a big hit & we are struggling with dr. Bills. Does anyone know of any assistance? SS disablilty denied me & I can't find a lawyer to take my case. Does anyone…Continue


Started by Julie in Complementary Therapies. Last reply by Madere (dancermom) 21 hours ago. 1 Reply

I saw a new doctor today and while she said it wouldn't be easy she thinks she can get me back into remission. ( I have been having severe GI issues for the last 2 years) she wants me to cut out all wheat and dairy for the next ten days to see if…Continue

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Watch out for toxic incredients in sunscreens!

Posted by Lupus Warrior #711 on June 23, 2015 at 9:01pm 0 Comments

Like most of you, I need to wear sunscreen all the time. I was using one that claimed to be for sensitive skin and "recommended by dermatologists." It had no odor and felt soothing on my skin so I thought it was fine. However, I noticed my malar… Continue

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