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What is Lupus?

Lupus is a chronic inflammatory disease that occurs when your body's immune system attacks your own tissues and organs. Inflammation caused by lupus can affect many different body systems — including your joints, skin, kidneys, blood cells, brain, heart and lungs.

Lupus can be difficult to diagnose because its signs and symptoms often mimic those of other ailments. The most distinctive sign of lupus — a facial rash that resembles the wings of a butterfly unfolding across both cheeks — occurs in many but not all cases of lupus.

Some people are born with a tendency toward developing lupus, which may be triggered by infections, certain drugs or even sunlight. While there's no cure for lupus, treatments can help control symptoms.

Many celebrities with lupus deal with the daily challenges of the disease as well.



Started by Andrea in Introductions. Last reply by Queenpink 5 hours ago. 3 Replies

Hello! My name is Andrea and I came across this website while searching for information about lupus. I was diagnosed about 2 1/2years ago. I have good days when the lupus does not bother me as much and days when it takes all the energy I have just…Continue

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Very new to this

Started by Sweetie Pie in Introductions. Last reply by Queenpink yesterday. 3 Replies

Hi I'm a 34 year old mom of three children age 13/12/7 years old my husband works a lot so I take care of pretty much everything I had Lupus symptoms For a long time my PCP ignored it even though I told him multiple times how I was feeling it wasn't…Continue

Parent of Teen Just DX'd - Our Story

Started by TNTLamb in Introductions. Last reply by lynn4545 on Sunday. 2 Replies

Good morning!  My wife Tenia and I have built our family with special needs children both as foster kids and formally adopted 9. Life has turned out pretty well for those kids but with a lot of challenges. Tana is one of these kid's kids. her dad…Continue

being driven bananas

Started by Queenpink in Emotional Support. Last reply by Queenpink yesterday. 5 Replies

I am going bonkers with the pain  now its summer here in ireland.I can't stick it at all the humidty is driving me insane with the pain fatigue and lung issues.I dont know what to do to make me feel better.The plaquenil is NOT helping i am out of…Continue

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Queenpink replied to Andrea's discussion Hello
"Hi andrea.I also have fibro along with SLE.It's horrible when bother fibro and lupus flare at the same time,i can relate to what you are going through.I also have GERD,ibs,epilepsy and asthma.You are not alone in this.Message me anytime if you…"
5 hours ago
Vera replied to Andrea's discussion Hello
"Hello Andrea, I'm glad you found this site. I was diagnosed 4 years ago and there is still so much to learn. I was diagnosed with lupus and fibromyalgia and also have Gastroparesis. Some days are harder than others, but just coming to this site…"
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"Sorry for not being active for so long! But I'm back now. How is everybody??"
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